According to AAPD (American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry) guidelines, infants should initially visit the pediatric dentist around the time of their first birthday. First visits can be stressful for parents, especially for parents who have dental phobias themselves.
It is imperative for parents to continually communicate positive messages about dental visits (especially the first one), and to help the child feel as happy as possible about visiting the dentist.
How can I prepare for my child’s first dental visit?
Pediatric dentists are required to undergo extensive training in child psychology. Their dental offices are generally colorful, child-friendly, and boast a selection of games, toys, and educational tools. Pediatric dentists (and all dental staff) aim to make the child feel as welcome as possible during all visits.
There are several things parents can do to make the first visit enjoyable. Some helpful tips are listed below:
Take another adult along for the visit – Sometimes infants become fussy when having their mouths examined. Having another adult along to soothe the infant allows the parent to ask questions and to attend to any advice the dentist may have.
Leave other children at home – Other children can distract the parent and cause the infant to fuss. Leaving other children at home (when possible) makes the first visit less stressful for all concerned.
Avoid threatening language – Pediatric dentists and staff are trained to avoid the use of threatening language like “drills,” “needles,” “injections,” and “bleeding.” It is imperative for parents to use positive language when speaking about dental treatment with their child.
Provide positive explanations – It is important to explain the purposes of the dental visit in a positive way. Explaining that the dentist “helps keep teeth healthy” is far better than explaining that the dentist “is checking for tooth decay and might have to drill the tooth if decay is found.”
Explain what will happen – Anxiety can be vastly reduced if the child knows what to expect. Age-appropriate books about visiting the dentist can be very helpful in making the visit seem fun. Here is a list of parent and dentist-approved books:
- The Berenstain Bears Visit the Dentist – by Stan and Jan Berenstain.
- Show Me Your Smile: A Visit to the Dentist – Part of the “Dora the Explorer” Series.
- Going to the Dentist – by Anne Civardi.
- Elmo Visits the Dentist – Part of the “Sesame Street” Series.
What will happen during the first visit?
There are several goals for the first dental visit. First, the pediatric dentist and the child need to get properly acquainted. Second, the dentist needs to monitor tooth and jaw development to get an idea of the child’s overall health history. Third, the dentist needs to evaluate the health of the existing teeth and gums. Finally, the dentist aims to answer questions and advise parents on how to implement a good oral care regimen.
The following sequence of events is typical of an initial “well baby checkup”:
- Dental staff will greet the child and parents.
- The infant/family health history will be reviewed (this may include questionnaires).
- The pediatric dentist will address parental questions and concerns.
- More questions will be asked, generally pertaining to the child’s oral habits, pacifier use, general development, tooth alignment, tooth development, and diet.
- The dentist will provide advice on good oral care, how to prevent oral injury, fluoride intake, and sippy cup use.
- The infant’s teeth will be examined. Generally, the dentist and parent sit facing each other. The infant is positioned so that his or her head is cradled in the dentist’s lap. This position allows the infant to look at the parent during the examination.
- Good brushing and flossing demonstrations will be provided.
- The state of the child’s oral health will be described in detail, and specific recommendations will be made. Recommendations usually relate to oral habits, appropriate toothpastes and toothbrushes for the child, orthodontically correct pacifiers, and diet.
- The dentist will detail which teeth may appear in the following months.
- The dentist will outline an appointment schedule and describe what will happen during the next appointment.
If you have questions or concerns about your child’s first dental visit, please contact our office.
First Visit FAQs
How can I prepare my child for their first dental visit?
Preparing your child starts with using positive, reassuring language when talking about the dentist. Parents are encouraged to explain the visit as a way to help keep teeth healthy rather than focusing on problems. Reading age-appropriate books about going to the dentist can help children know what to expect and reduce fear. Bringing another adult to the appointment can also be helpful, especially for very young children who may need extra soothing.
What should I expect during my child’s first dental visit?
The first visit is designed to be gentle, educational, and stress-free. The appointment usually begins with a warm greeting, followed by a review of your child’s health history. The dentist will examine tooth and jaw development, check the gums and existing teeth, and answer questions. The goal is to build trust, assess oral health, and guide parents on proper care.
How can I help reduce my child’s anxiety about visiting the dentist?
Using calm, positive language is one of the most effective ways to reduce anxiety. Avoid words that may sound scary, and instead describe the dentist as someone who helps keep smiles healthy. Role-playing a dental visit at home with toys or pretend tools can also help. A welcoming, child-focused environment further supports a relaxed experience.
What questions should I ask during my child’s first dental appointment?
Parents are encouraged to ask about brushing techniques, diet, fluoride use, and oral habits such as thumb sucking or pacifier use. Discussing injury prevention, tooth eruption timelines, and any developmental concerns is also helpful. The first visit is an excellent opportunity to receive personalized guidance tailored to your child’s needs.
How often should my child visit the dentist after the first appointment?
Children are generally recommended to see the dentist for regular check-ups every six months. These regular visits allow the dentist to monitor development, catch issues early, and reinforce healthy habits. Depending on your child’s oral health, the dentist may recommend a different schedule.
What should I bring to my child’s first dental visit?
Parents should bring a valid ID, insurance information, and any relevant medical or dental history. If available, previous dental records can be helpful. Comfort items such as a favorite toy or blanket can also make young children feel more secure during the visit.
How does Advanced Pediatric Dental create a welcoming environment for children?
Advanced Pediatric Dental is designed with children in mind, featuring a friendly atmosphere, colorful spaces, and engaging activities. The team is trained in child psychology and uses age-appropriate communication to help children feel safe and comfortable. Every effort is made to ensure visits are positive and supportive.
At what age should my child have their first dental visit?
As per the recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, a child’s initial dental appointment should occur near their first birthday. Early visits allow the dentist to monitor development, provide preventive guidance, and help establish a positive relationship with dental care from the start.
Will my child’s teeth be cleaned during the first visit?
In many cases, the first visit focuses on examination, education, and comfort rather than a full cleaning. If appropriate, gentle cleaning and brushing demonstrations may be provided. The dentist will explain what future visits may include based on your child’s age and oral development.
Why is the first dental visit important for long-term oral health?
The first dental visit sets the foundation for healthy habits and ongoing preventive care. It allows early detection of potential concerns, helps parents learn how to care for their child’s teeth, and reduces the likelihood of dental anxiety. Positive early experiences often lead to better oral health and confidence as children grow.
Dr. Chitra Tiruveedula
Connect on Linkedin
Dr. Chitra Tiruveedula has been practicing dentistry for over 20 years. After advanced training at Case Western Reserve University and Cleveland Clinic in Ohio, she relocated to Orange County, CA in 2015. Dr. Chitra is a member of the American Dental Association and California Dental Association. Committed to continuous education, she provides top-quality dental services using the latest advancements.
Dr. Joseph C. Yang
Dr. Joseph C. Yang has over 30 years of dental practice experience. He earned his B.S. from Washington University in St. Louis, MO, and his D.D.S. from the University of Illinois, Chicago. He then had a distinguished 30-year career as a U.S. Naval Dental Officer, including a residency in Periodontology at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center. Dr. Yang is a diplomate of the American Board of Periodontology and a member of the American Dental Association and American Academy of Periodontology. As a board-certified Periodontist, he has performed thousands of successful periodontal and implant procedures. He is also a renowned lecturer and trainer in the latest implant and periodontal techniques worldwide.